Personally I don’t think it’s possible to have a ltr with a bpd unless the non will just accept a life of pain and grief and just be the doormat , I’d rather be single than have a life of regrets , that’s just my story and I don’t know any other bpds personally so can’t comment Hello, it breaks myheart, but all is not lost, at least you still have the want to have a friend that is a huge beginning, I am in kinda the same position I have no family , my daughter is a drug addict , very abusive, and I live alone with 7 dogs, they are my lie I have a neck and lumbar fusion from a auto accident 55 years old, and walking is ...
2021.12.04 20:41 crystalscats Have any narcs displayed aspects of BPD as well?
My narc appears obsessed with BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder. He says that 2 of his ex's have it. He has tried to accuse me of having it. I'm starting to suspect that not only does he have NPD but also aspects of BPD. I also think he has some symptoms of ADHD & I suspect he is autistic ( 2 of his 3 kids are diagnosed) that is quite a mixture. The BPD part is the sheer rage & anger he can display. He looks manic & deranged. One minute he can love me or say he does & the next he can't stand me. He seems to love drama. He is all about false accusations as regards myself & wanting to do a smear campaign against me on FB only I refused to add him but he basically said I needed to announce to all that I abused him.
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6 months ago I had all (24) of my teeth extracted, 8 implants placed (4 on top, 4 on bottom) alveoplasty and bone grafts with the plan of having snap in dentures this month. Yesterday I had all of my implants uncovered but no healing abutments were attached. The Dr told me what was attached is what will be used to snap into my dentures in 2 weeks. My question is I already have 1 implant almost completely covered by my gums. Is this a normal thing? Seems like I’ll just have to have them uncovered again which I don’t want to go through 😩 There office is closed so I can’t call until Monday, any info would be appreciated, thanks!
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2021.12.04 20:41 Wega58 What happens Monday when a company value is at $3b as of today! but closed on Friday with a market cap of only $1.45b?
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2021.12.04 20:41 QueBonitoEsVolar My (20F) friend (18F) just roasted me with my boyfriend (22M) and now I'm feeling insecure
So here's my deal. I'm of half Mexican ancestry and half white. Growing up, I never learned Spanish because my mom was discouraged from learning it growing up- my grandparents had both experienced discrimination in Texas schools as Mexican kids speaking Spanish, so they tried to only speak English around my mom and her siblings. While I did learn how to understand a lot of Spanish growing up from being around my relatives and Spanish-speaking friends, I can't produce anything. I know what things mean because I picked up on a lot of vocabulary, but I don't know how to string a sentence together. I took a few very basic Spanish classes in high school, which greatly improved my writing, but these mostly emphasized things like "how to conjugate the subjunctive" so I really never got a chance to practice Spanish conversation. I freeze up when I have to speak Spanish, and I have always been DEEPLY insecure about this. Because of this, I added a Spanish minor and will be taking a conversation course next year. For this minor, I have to do an internship, so i am doing an internship with an organization servicing Mexican-American students.
I have never before been in ANY kind of relationship. Not just a serious relationship- I've never even really had a fling or even a talking stage that *went* anywhere. But recently I started a relationship with one of the other interns at this internship. It has been very nice and has been going very well.
But last night, I was at a kickback with a bunch of my friends. Since a few of my friends brought a +1, I texted my guy and invited him over.
It is to be noted that, in person, he and I have been speaking in English. He did start texting me in Spanish, and I have been replying back in Spanish, but that started after the last time I saw him.
When my he arrives, he and my friend both begin speaking in Spanish. They are both from Mexico, but from different states, so they started debating about whose state had better food, better music, etc. This already made me feel insecure (I don't think I'm a jealous person at all, I had zero issue with him talking to any of my other girls at the party, but this is my FIRST ever relationship and this particular girl is the biggest flirt I have ever met, and I know her very well and can tell when she's talking to guys in a kind of flirty way, so I was already a bit awkward for me.)
I walk away for like 5 seconds to reply to a friend who had been calling me over, and when I return, they're literally roasting my Spanish- my friend is calling me a no-sabo kid and explaining that I claim to speak some Spanish but don't actually speak it. Then she turns to me and says in English "I don't think I have EVER heard you speak Spanish dude, isn't that your minor? When was the last time you even took a class for it?"
I tried to reply in Spanish and she was like "okay, you have to slow down so you can say the words correctly" and my boyfriend just laughed. Afterwards he relayed a lot of their conversation to me as if I hadn't understood anything, even though I caught every word.
I have no reason to be as anxious about this as I am, but I AM anxious about it. It's not just that I'm being judged- there is a book by Moroccan writer and sociologist Abdelkebir Khatibi called "Love in Two Languages" about a Moroccan-Arab man who speaks Darija trying to date a French woman. The main takeaway from the novel is that, as the French woman speaks very limited Darija and their conversations are more often in French, the woman is forever bound by the colonial framework of her first language and can never fully "see" or understand the Moroccan man the way a Moroccan woman who learned Darija first could. The idea of the book is that inherently, relationships between those who have a colonial L1 and those who do not cannot possibly experience a full connection.
I know this is just a book, that this book is from a Moroccan (not Mexican) perspective, and that the French woman in the book was not Moroccan-French or trying to connect with Moroccan cultural at all. I also do have some opinions about how the idea of linguistic determinism plays into some kind of racist, behaviorist, Sapir-Whorf Hypothesis-based approaches to language that do not reflect the universality of human experience and human language, but I am still stressing. He seemed so much more fluid speaking to my friend- he wasn't using English as he does with me, so he seemed more comfortable. And now I am worrying that perhaps, my nerdy, whitewashed self with my shitty Spanish isn't what he needs right now. It's even more ironic because I have near-fluency in Arabic/Darija so I probably look like I'm just not trying with Spanish, but this is because I lived in Morocco with a family that didn't speak English for a really long time, so that made a big difference in those languages.
Idk I just feel weird and ashamed. I'm going to work harder on my conversational Spanish now, and I am probably worrying about nothing, but I'm still like ahhhh
TL;DR, my bestie (L1 is Spanish) roasted my (L1 is English) terrible Spanish to boyfriend (L1 is Spanish) and they both laughed and now I'm being insecure about it
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2021.12.04 20:41 ilovetheinternet90 As the price recovers 😅
I wanted to discuss something, the burn. Temper expectations, however, I feel as if once Saitamask launches the burn will be nothing short of phenomenal. We're already burning roughly a trillion or two a day from what I gather seeing the burn updates from the Saitama burn Twitter page. If every project that's listed on Saitamask is paired with $Sait and required to purchase prior to purchasing the desired crypto; is it foolish to believe that we could see the burn rate triple just off of the launch and trading of Lilly alone?
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