2021.10.25 23:12 awkwardaquariusaward Husband doesn’t take on mental load and games all day. It’s making me question everything. I’m 26 and want kids. Am I wasting my time?
I feel like I have my entire life ahead of me and I’m wasting it. My husband is a nice person (at least I thought) but continuously uses it as an excuse for his behavior. I work from home and he does usually (goes into the office about once a month for a full week). We’ve had the “chores war” issue for years now. Ever since he got home from deployment and I got him a PS4 as a coming home present. He games CONSTANTLY. When he’s working from home- he has the game up from 6am until he’s off. Then he doesn’t leave his office… he doesn’t help with dinner unless asked, doesn’t get our dog out of the crate unless asked, doesn’t moveee without being asked. I’ve tried everything. I made a list of weekly stuff for us to do so he can check stuff off. We even came up with doing the chores on Sunday from 3-6. I have to remind him that it’s 3 and we should start cleaning. The first time we did it he started a mission on his game at 2:50 and used that as an excuse as to why he was late with cleaning. I feel like a mother. I don’t feel like I have a partner whatsoever. Anytime I mention the gaming he gets extremely defensive. He says “I’m so nice to you why do you treat me like this?!” When all I’m asking for is to not have to ask!!! He’s a grown man and it’s unfair. We’ve seen counseling. We’ve tried what feels like everything. The worst part… I nagged him to call the counselor for three weeks straight just to see if he’d do it. Eventually I got fed up, yelled, then he called. It takes him to see me in tears to do something. He claims I don’t respect him but honestly… at this point I don’t. I resent him. I feel so alone and I’m losing myself. My husband is military so we had to move out of state. I’m so afraid of starting over but I’m not sure if I can handle this for 50+ more years.
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2021.10.25 23:12 Samuel290621 podem me excluir r/pergunte
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traduzindo é isso, só não sei o que eu fiz...rsrs...podem deletar minha conta...por favor! Foi permanentemente proibido de participar no PergunteReddit. Ainda pode ver e subscrever o PergunteReddit, mas não poderá publicar ou comentar.
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ainda to aqui, que aconteceu...achei que já tinham me excluido..óooo, deuses do reddit,,,nem vou dormir de preocupado...pera ai, eu mesmo me excluo...
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2021.10.25 23:12 ifiagreedwithu How nice.
2021.10.25 23:12 dretheboss06 My 3 month transition from July to now, still have a lot of work for my goals but I’m getting there (age 15)
2021.10.25 23:12 briintn Where should reservist spouses turn to for support during deployments?
My husband is in the reserves and will be deploying soon. Back when he was active, I could see how the other wives supported each other and leaned on each other during time apart from their husbands. But the deployment coming up will be my husbands first so we’ve never personally been through it before. Being a reserve unit, they come from all over so it’s not like all of the spouses will be left behind still living in the community together like for active units.
I do have my family close by, but other than that I really only have one friend.
So basically I just wanted some advice on where to find support during the deployment
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2021.10.25 23:11 drive_on_boy_will_ya Schizophrenic brother won’t get help, is driving my ageing parents crazy. They are worried about who’s going to take care of him once they are gone.
I don’t know how to write this lads, this is a problem that’s been going on for far too long....
My mother has been crying to me,she blames herself for how he’s turned out , I don’t know what to do
Long story short: schizophrenic brother refuses to get help , is driving me and parents crazy,, medical professionals refuse to help because he’s not a danger to himself or others, so it’s left to my elderly parents to clean up after him because he refuses to clean up after himself ,because he’s a selfish asshole who doesn’t care about anyone other then himself. ￼
My dad literally just recovered from cancer but my brother still smokes inside. I’ve beat him and fucked him out of it for doing so but it makes no difference.it’s like talking to a wall , I’m at my wits end . I’m not joking, I’m fit to kill the cunt. And suffer the repercussions.
I’ve tried everything, but I honestly think death would be the best option for this cunt.￼ He’s a waste on society
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2021.10.25 23:11 Impressive_Pen8021 Goblin king, me, polymer clay, 2021
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2021.10.25 23:11 Nobility773 We all think about it
2021.10.25 23:11 astickboy When your wife has jokes after the ride
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2021.10.25 23:11 vinosevant Digital built in boost gauge maxes out
Bought a 2017 Gti SE a couple months ago, 3rd owner, got her with 19,500 miles on it. I put pedal to the metal and read the boost gauge, it was maxed out and she still was climbing. I understand it’s reading absolute pressure but does this indicaticate my ecu was flashed?
Car also came with a cold air intake
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2021.10.25 23:11 wafungus this is my friend stefan
2021.10.25 23:11 SlateCrimson So I just got my first wah pedal, what are some cool songs to learn?
So basically I'm looking for suggestions of cool songs to learn with good wah or envelope filter basslines, or just songs that sound good with that type of sound.
I'm not a tone purist, I would play beethoven with fuzz if it sounded good, as an example, the first part of the bassline on blood sugar sex magik sounds really good with wah even though the original bassline doesn't have it, so songs like that would be pretty great. Or songs like them changes, except that one is too difficult for me lol.
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2021.10.25 23:11 oliveangelic33 Started collecting mid-august and finally got some shelving for my manga (and figures), excited to keep adding!
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2021.10.25 23:11 5headed r/atheism
I want to put an end to religions worldwide
I am a 17 year old boy and I want to do what it says above. I have researched very well and I think I am more than capable to do it or at least, make a lot of young people stop believing in that and make most people base everything on the scientific method
For that I’m going to study Astrophysics, and 2 other careers that don’t have much to do with that, it would be more for pleasure
This is an evil that has to end as soon as possible and that in my opinion, is not given so much importance because “you have to respect” when it should be the opposite
I would be more than happy if there were more people with my objective. At least I want to convince people who speak my language (Spanish) that there has never been any deity that watches over you when you do your intimate things.
Before I was aiming to have a lot of money and live a relaxed life, since my 2 careers may allow me to do that (cybersecurity and computer engineering) but I have this between my eyebrows and I don’t think I will change my mind.
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2021.10.25 23:11 gotit4cheap16 When you pay 450 Yuan for Royal 1's from CNFACTORY and wait 40 days for delivery only to notice uneven swoosh flaws that weren't in WEGOBUYS crappy QC. Oh well, I'm still going to rock the hell out of them or give them to my little brother.
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2021.10.25 23:11 painfulchancre What are immediate red flags when you meet a new person?
2021.10.25 23:11 nem_v_39 Maybe I'm thinking too much but do you think that this will lead to something?
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2021.10.25 23:11 One_Mail_2414 Lakers look-alike championship Leather Jacket - 97¥
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2021.10.25 23:11 VerdensTrial I was unsure whether I regretted starting over... and then I randomly get my favorite villager from when I played New Leaf 🥳
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2021.10.25 23:11 Lilac_Playz Pure Vanilla What Are You Doing? (Art not By me)
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2021.10.25 23:11 320monty Alec Baldwin and his wife Hilaria need to stay off social media, except to honor Halyna Hutchins, crisis experts say
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2021.10.25 23:11 Ziti-2of7 Can you spoof this event like the last gamestop one?
2021.10.25 23:11 ZoolShop AstraZeneca and Pfizer vaccines associated with rare but potentially serious side effects in study | News
2021.10.25 23:11 Normal-Lavishness336 This perfect picture I took of my little cousin
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2021.10.25 23:11 SkyTraderStocks Zip Trader $XELA
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